Potentash
  • Relationships
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Parenting
  • Lifestyle
    • Home
    • Food + Beverage
    • Fashion
    • Interviews
  • Stories
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Fiction
    • Poetry
  • Skin + Beauty
    • Skin
      • Skincare
    • Hair
      • Haircare
  • Wellness
    • Physical Health
    • Emotional Wellness
    • Mental Wellness
    • Social Wellness
    • Spiritual Wellness
  • Business
    • Business Finance
    • Personal Finance
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Investments
    • Personal Investments
  • Entertainment
    • Internet
    • Events
    • Music
    • Books
No Result
View All Result
  • Login
Potentash
  • Relationships
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Parenting
  • Lifestyle
    • Home
    • Food + Beverage
    • Fashion
    • Interviews
  • Stories
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Fiction
    • Poetry
  • Skin + Beauty
    • Skin
      • Skincare
    • Hair
      • Haircare
  • Wellness
    • Physical Health
    • Emotional Wellness
    • Mental Wellness
    • Social Wellness
    • Spiritual Wellness
  • Business
    • Business Finance
    • Personal Finance
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Investments
    • Personal Investments
  • Entertainment
    • Internet
    • Events
    • Music
    • Books
No Result
View All Result
  • Login
Potentash
No Result
View All Result
Scheduling Sex - Calendar with the words sexy time

Scheduling Sex - Calendar with the words sexy time Image from https://bit.ly/42Iz64k

Relationships: The Benefits Of Scheduling Sex

Nereah Obimbo by Nereah Obimbo
28 March 2023
in Sex
Reading Time: 4 mins read
10 1
0
13
SHARES
70
VIEWS
FacebookTwitterWhatsApp

When it comes to sex, spontaneous jump-your-partner sex is the gold standard. Scheduling is seen as this thing boring, and older couples with children who just have no time are reduced to. It’s for people who no longer have that spark that makes couples jump each other’s bones in the heat of passion. This is far from the case. Scheduled sex can be hot and romantic and can even bring back that spark and excitement. Here are some benefits of scheduling sex.

Builds anticipation

Scheduling sex gives you something to look forward to. It builds anticipation which can be its own foreplay. Scheduling can be its own intimate form of seduction and foreplay. If you combine this anticipation with something like sexting during the day, telling your partner how much you’re looking forward to it, maybe what you’re going to do to them and inviting them to tell you what they’d like, both of you will likely be rearing to go when the festivities begin in earnest.

Tips For Having Good Phone Sex

Prioritizing intimacy

We schedule important things and make sure we set aside time to get them done. We make sure to prioritize them. Why not do the same with something as important as nurturing intimacy in our relationships? Scheduling sex can signal to your partner that you value them and the relationship and are setting aside time just for them. This can further strengthen your intimacy.

Sex: 6 Tips To Improve Your Love Life

More pleasurable

Scheduling sex leads to better sex overall. First of all, you’re both on the same page mentally, physically and emotionally. Second, when you are intentional in advance about sexual intimacy, it becomes more than just a few minutes in the bedroom. You have so much more time and can make it a whole event. You both plan and are focused on each other. Then there’s the extra pleasure that comes from the build-up of anticipation as the day nears. Plus, planning in advance means talking about it which means you can even get a chance to try out new stuff, further enhancing the pleasure.

Improved communication

In order to schedule sex, you’ll need to talk about your relationship and in particular your sexual needs and desires. Talking about it can lead to a deeper understanding of each other’s needs and desires. It can also improve communication in the rest of your relationship. If you can talk about something as intimate as your sexual needs and desires, you should be able to talk about the rest of the stuff.

Reduced stress and anxiety

Scheduling sex can be especially beneficial for couples who have anxiety around initiating sex because of fear of rejection or even as a side-effect of growing up in a society where sexual talk is taboo. Scheduling makes sure everyone knows when things are going, which can decrease the stress and anxiety that comes with trying to find a way to initiate or regularly plan seduction.

How To Cope With Sex Anxiety

More frequent sex

The spontaneous group may look like they have more sex but they don’t. Leaving it to chance is unlikely to result in more sexual engagement. Scheduling sex in prioritizing moments of intimacy can have the great side-effect of leading to more sex.

Jumpstart sex life

For couples who have been on a dry spell, for whatever reason, scheduling sex can be a great way to get back on track. The anxiety and awkwardness that comes from being intimate again after a long stretch can make couples put it off even longer. Scheduling sex is a sign of mutual agreement to end the drought and is a way to beat the anxiety, giving each person time to mentally prepare which can improve the likelihood of success.

Other considerations

The advance notice courtesy of scheduling sex can be especially beneficial for people who take longer to get aroused have anxiety, use medication that causes side effects or use viagra or vaginal cream before sex.

There’s a place for spontaneity, but there’s value in being intentional about setting aside time exclusively to focus on each other and nothing else, in an act that says you’re not leaving your intimacy to chance. Talk to your partner about it, agree on a time that works for both of you and try it out. Make sure you actually write down the agreed time and if you need it, add notifications. If it goes well, schedule more sex dates, and talk about what you want from them, more sex, deeper intimacy or to try something new. Whatever it is, make sure you’re on the same page, set a time, and action.

Check out

Let’s Talk About Sex And Ways You Can Enjoy It More

Benefits Of Keeping A Sex Journal And How To Start One

Relationships: Benefits Of Changing Sex Positions Frequently

How To Cope With Sex Anxiety

Sex: The Kama Sutra And Some Positions That Allow Women To Have Orgasms Easily

Share5Tweet3SendShare1Pin1
Previous Post

Nikama Drama, Kama Video. Here Is What We Know So Far About South African Rapist Thabo Bester Who Faked His Death To Escape From Prison

Next Post

Adoption: The Problem With How We Approach It

Nereah Obimbo

Nereah Obimbo

Writer. Youtuber. Filmmaker. Abolitionist. Pessimism of the intellect, optimism of the will.

Next Post
Baby lying on their back - Adoption

Adoption: The Problem With How We Approach It

Please login to join discussion

Recommended

How to smell good throughout the day

How to smell good throughout the day

23 June 2014
2.2k
Finance: 5 Tips To Help You Stick To Your Budget

Lifestyle: How To Live Your Best Life On A Budget

16 April 2019
238

Popular Stories

  • He Kept Saying He Was Over His Ex, But He Left My Birthday Dinner To Rush To Her Side

    He Kept Saying He Was Over His Ex, But He Left My Birthday Dinner To Rush To Her Side

    3 shares
    Share 1 Tweet 1
  • The Singlehood Series: I Left Her After She Met My Parents Because Some Red Flags Became Visible During The Visit

    2 shares
    Share 1 Tweet 1
  • We Met At A Funeral, And For A While, Grief Felt Just Like Love

    3 shares
    Share 1 Tweet 1
  • The Campus Girl Is Not A Wife Wrote Ivy Aseka: Such Sour Grapes Writing Is Damaging With Its Stereotypes

    271 shares
    Share 108 Tweet 68
  • Relationships And A Tolerable Level Of Permanent Unhappiness

    1584 shares
    Share 632 Tweet 395

Potentash Blog

Potentash is an award-winning lifestyle blog. We publish lifestyle content that intersects with health, women, beauty, travel, business, relationships, finances and entertainment.

Explore

  • The Singlehood Series
  • From Stairs To Ramps
  • Man Around Nairobi
  • Pearls And Heels
  • Personal Finance
  • Food + Beverage
  • Editor’s Pick
  • Reviews

Get the Potentash Newsletter

  • Newsletter Archive
  • Subscribe
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Privacy Policy
  • Contact Us

Copyright © 2023. Potentash, In Partnership with Decima

Welcome Back!

Sign In with Linked In
OR

Login to your account below

Forgotten Password?

Retrieve your password

Please enter your username or email address to reset your password.

Log In
  • Login
No Result
View All Result
  • Relationships
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Parenting
  • Lifestyle
    • Home
    • Food + Beverage
    • Fashion
    • Interviews
  • Stories
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Fiction
    • Poetry
  • Skin + Beauty
    • Skin
      • Skincare
    • Hair
      • Haircare
  • Wellness
    • Physical Health
    • Emotional Wellness
    • Mental Wellness
    • Social Wellness
    • Spiritual Wellness
  • Business
    • Business Finance
    • Personal Finance
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Investments
    • Personal Investments
  • Entertainment
    • Internet
    • Events
    • Music
    • Books

Copyright © 2023. Potentash, In Partnership with Decima