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5 Ways To Stay Positive When Things Aren’t Going Well

Faith Wambui by Faith Wambui
2 February 2019
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Everybody goes through days, weeks and even, months when you can’t seem to shake off that dark cloud. Though many people might pride themselves on being optimists, staying positive during hard times takes a lot of willpower.  The truth is, negative things happen all the time. It’s important to learn how to stay positive through it. Whether it’s the loss of a loved one or financial or work problems, here are some ways to stay positive when things don’t go your way.

  1. Reframe Negativity

As the wise men say, “When life hands you lemons, make lemonade.” This isn’t just a saying but words to live by. Try thinking positive thoughts to avoid sinking into a dark place. Positive people will see a problem to be solved instead of focusing on the impact of the problem. think of it as a challenge rather than a problem. That way, you will be able to see the silver lining during those dark days.

  1. Unplug

Negativity is all around us and it travels fast through traditional media and social media. Every now and then, take some time off all electronics and reconnect with yourself. Go for a walk outside. If possible, go somewhere quiet. Too much screen time can have a terrible toll on your mental health. Therefore, it’s necessary to get some time to yourself. Technology and Social Media – Time to unplug

  1. Identify Positive Stories

A good source of positive vibes is other people’s triumph stories. From the people around us to celebrities, you’re likely to find their stories inspiring. For instance, Muhammed Ali, one of the greatest boxers of all time, got into boxing after his brand-new bike got stolen. Such stories of how people turned their disadvantage to an advantage might help you stay afloat during your own trying times.

  1. Have A Positive Support System

Most people who overcome difficult times attribute it to their family or friends. It’s not just idle talk. These people are key players in your life and you should keep them close. Being around positive people will help you stay positive. On the other hand, you should avoid negative people completely. They impede your progress and will only bring you down. Ensure that the people you interact with have a similar mindset to make sure you stay optimistic.

  1. Focus On Your Goals

It’s easy to feel discouraged when something doesn’t go according to plan. This might make you lose sight of your goals thus finding yourself feeling depressed or helpless. However, keeping your eye on the price might help you get over the slump faster. Always keep the end goal in mind even through tough times. This is what motivates most people to stay positive. If you hit a roadblock in life, remind yourself why you started in the first place and keep that tunnel vision. 

Once you start practising these tips, you’ll have an easier time dealing with disappointments and heartbreak. Most importantly, don’t let negativity consume you. Stay positive.

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