fbpx
Potentash
  • Relationships
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Parenting
  • Lifestyle
    • Home
    • Food + Beverage
    • Fashion
    • Interviews
  • Stories
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Fiction
    • Poetry
  • Skin + Beauty
    • Skin
      • Skincare
    • Hair
      • Haircare
  • Wellness
    • Physical Health
    • Emotional Wellness
    • Mental Wellness
    • Social Wellness
    • Spiritual Wellness
  • Business
    • Business Finance
    • Personal Finance
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Investments
    • Personal Investments
  • Entertainment
    • Internet
    • Events
    • Music
    • Books
No Result
View All Result
  • Login
Potentash
  • Relationships
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Parenting
  • Lifestyle
    • Home
    • Food + Beverage
    • Fashion
    • Interviews
  • Stories
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Fiction
    • Poetry
  • Skin + Beauty
    • Skin
      • Skincare
    • Hair
      • Haircare
  • Wellness
    • Physical Health
    • Emotional Wellness
    • Mental Wellness
    • Social Wellness
    • Spiritual Wellness
  • Business
    • Business Finance
    • Personal Finance
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Investments
    • Personal Investments
  • Entertainment
    • Internet
    • Events
    • Music
    • Books
No Result
View All Result
  • Login
Potentash
No Result
View All Result
Jerrod Carmichael with Maxine and their unicorn

Jerrod Carmichael with Maxine and their unicorn Image from https://tinyurl.com/3uvvmcmp

Have You Heard Of Relationship Unicorns? Here’s What It Means

Nereah Obimbo by Nereah Obimbo
16 November 2023
in Relationships
Reading Time: 3 mins read
3 0
0
5
SHARES
20
VIEWS
FacebookTwitterWhatsApp

Relationships in media often follow one template with most narratives taking a decidedly romantic comedy angle. A lot is changing though about how relationships are perceived as people deconstruct patriarchy. One of the things that’s on the rise is polyamorous relationships.

One study in the US found that more than 20% of Americans have participated in a consensual, non-monogamous relationship at some point in their life. A unicorn in dating refers to the third person who joins an existing relationship. This partner is usually a bisexual woman. It could also be a bisexual man or a non-binary person. The reason this partner is referred to as a unicorn is because of how difficult it is to find one, so difficult they’re mythical.

Why do couples look for unicorns?

  • To spice up the relationship with new sexual experiences and novelty.
  • It’s a safer way to foray into non-monogamy as a couple.
  • It can affirm your sexual orientation and allow for experimentation.
  • Greater companionship.
  • To share the burden of parenting together for people with kids.
  • Financial considerations especially if the unicorn moves in and contributes financially.

Why would someone want to be a unicorn?

  • It presents the opportunity for group sex galore.
  • It can be a way to have a relationship with lower commitment requirements than ordinary dating.
  • It can create an opportunity to give, receive, and experience a whole lot more love.

Unicorn relationship guidelines

Open communication is key: there’s a lot to navigate here. Make sure you have regular check-ins that aren’t just about addressing issues but also celebrating the good times and reaffirming mutual respect. Every person should be free to speak openly about their concerns, desires, and feelings without feeling judged. Make sure you’re always on the same page.

Understand the unicorn’s boundaries upfront: the unicorn is already at a disadvantage as they join an existing relationship, the least you can do is encourage them to set boundaries and respect them. That’s non-negotiable.

Set boundaries for the group: set healthy boundaries and constantly revisit them to account for people’s changing thoughts and feelings.

It’s not just about sex: remember that it involves real people which means genuine emotions and needs that should be recognized and honoured. You should build a foundation of mutual trust, understanding, and respect. Avoid objectifying the unicorn.

Stay flexible and adaptable: things change, so be open to that. Be willing to make adjustments as long as they are not compromises that you can’t live with.

Recognize when it’s time to part ways: every relationship has a lifespan and ending doesn’t mean failure.

Other tips to ensure your unicorn relationship survives and thrives

  • Avoid giving anyone the “veto power” when it comes to decision-making.
  • Be transparent from the start about your needs, intentions, desires, and fears.
  • Regularly rotate date nights with each other to strengthen individual bonds.
  • Educate yourself about polyamory and non-traditional relationships.
  • Be prepared for external judgments, not everyone will be on board.
  • Practice self-awareness. Regularly check in with yourself about your feelings and needs.
  • Don’t expect too much from your unicorn.
  • Set the rules for the relationship together without excluding the unicorn.
  • See a relationship counsellor if you need to. You can do so as a couple because adding a unicorn will change the dynamics of your relationship. You can also do it as a triad.

If you’re the unicorn, make sure you feel like an equal part of the union and not just an outsider. You need to have a say in the relationship. A good couple will make sure you feel 100% included.

 

Check out

8 Pros And Cons Of Polyamorous Relationships

Relationships: Pros And Cons Of Open Relationships

Share2Tweet1SendSharePin1
Previous Post

Winter Pet Health: Common Illnesses to Watch For

Next Post

Climate Change: The Hidden Dangers Of Carbon Offsetting

Nereah Obimbo

Nereah Obimbo

Writer. Youtuber. Filmmaker. Abolitionist. Pessimism of the intellect, optimism of the will.

Next Post
Hidden dangers of carbon offsets

Climate Change: The Hidden Dangers Of Carbon Offsetting

Please login to join discussion

Recommended

Microwave Oven - Open door with two pizza slices on plate inside

Lifestyle: Considerations When Buying A Microwave Oven

25 June 2021
110
Food: Easy Desserts To Make Using 3 Ingredients Or Less

Food: Easy Desserts To Make Using 3 Ingredients Or Less

28 August 2018
195

Popular Stories

  • How different fathers reacted to finding out their children weren't biologically theirs

    Finding Out A Child Isn’t Biologically Yours Can Break Families. These Fathers Shared Their Stories On Reddit

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • I Fell In Love With Him Because He Made Me Laugh But It All Ended In Tears – Dating The Meme Guy

    1303 shares
    Share 521 Tweet 326
  • 10 Mistakes To Avoid While Using Your Washing Machine

    67 shares
    Share 27 Tweet 17
  • The Singlehood Series: He Ghosted Me After Three Years Living Together

    8 shares
    Share 3 Tweet 2
  • The Singlehood Series: He Got A Call From His Ex And They Reconciled While We Were On Date

    34 shares
    Share 13 Tweet 8

Potentash Blog

Potentash is an award-winning lifestyle blog. We publish lifestyle content that intersects with health, women, beauty, travel, business, relationships, finances and entertainment.

Explore

  • The Singlehood Series
  • From Stairs To Ramps
  • Man Around Nairobi
  • Pearls And Heels
  • Personal Finance
  • Food + Beverage
  • Editor’s Pick
  • Reviews

Get the Potentash Newsletter

  • Newsletter Archive
  • Subscribe
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Privacy Policy
  • Contact Us

Copyright © 2023. Potentash, In Partnership with Decima

  • Login
No Result
View All Result
  • Relationships
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Parenting
  • Lifestyle
    • Home
    • Food + Beverage
    • Fashion
    • Interviews
  • Stories
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Fiction
    • Poetry
  • Skin + Beauty
    • Skin
      • Skincare
    • Hair
      • Haircare
  • Wellness
    • Physical Health
    • Emotional Wellness
    • Mental Wellness
    • Social Wellness
    • Spiritual Wellness
  • Business
    • Business Finance
    • Personal Finance
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Investments
    • Personal Investments
  • Entertainment
    • Internet
    • Events
    • Music
    • Books

Copyright © 2023. Potentash, In Partnership with Decima

Welcome Back!

Sign In with Linked In
OR

Login to your account below

Forgotten Password?

Retrieve your password

Please enter your username or email address to reset your password.

Log In