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When Should You Give Up On A Man? 3 Signs He Doesn’t Love You

Wambui Gichuki by Wambui Gichuki
March 15, 2022
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Love is rare, and they say that once you find the one, you should hold onto it. You will experience ups and downs together, but you can create a wonderful relationship as long as you choose to stay.

That’s possible.

However, many women thought they’d found the right man, yet it turned out they didn’t.

Sometimes, even if you try so hard to fix things, they’re just not meant to be. Even if you’re so sure about him, it won’t work, especially if he’s not really into you.

So, how would I know if I’m the only person fighting for love? If my boyfriend is not romantic or affectionate and has been causing me pain, would they be enough reasons to give up on him?

When you’re in love with someone, you tend to overlook the red flags.

A relationship is an ongoing discovery and adjustment. Every couple goes through painful situations, and it can really take time to understand each other. After all, people have their own personalities and ways of expressing their feelings. He might not meet all your expectations and not totally romantic like others, but that doesn’t imply that he’s not worth it.

However, the case isn’t the same when you feel like he’s constantly crossing the line and breaking the golden rule.

When you’re in love with someone, you try to save what you have while you still can. As a result, you ignore the red flags and choose to stay, even though your needs are not met, which is not fair.

3 Signs That He’s Wasting Your Time

Regardless of how much you love a man, there’s a limit to how far you should go and what you should just ignore. You need to keep your self-respect and stop investing time in someone who’s not planning to spend his future with you. Below are the signs that he doesn’t really love you.

He’s Too Confusing

One day he’s so into you, initiating to go on dates, have sex, and make you feel special. The next few days, he becomes cold and totally ignores your existence.

For some other women, unpredictable men can be thrilling, but they’re not healthy for you. You won’t find inner peace and confidence knowing that he doesn’t consistently express his feelings.

Whether or not he intends to make you confused, communication is crucial in a serious relationship. You can’t look forward to getting married to him if he keeps giving you mixed signals.

He Doesn’t Commit

It’s so easy to fall for a guy who is handsome, sweet, smart, successful, and likes you. You’re done with casual relationships and just want to settle with someone nice. But the problem is, he admires you, but he doesn’t think the same way as you do about your relationship. He still has other priorities. He’s just into casual sex or still wants to enjoy the single life.

All the signs that he’s not ready to commit might be already visible, warning you to stay away from him and find yourself the guy you deserve. Yet, you turn a blind eye to them and hope that his feelings might change and that one day, he might realize he can’t live without you.

But you need to wake up because the boyfriend you deserve is one who seeks the kind of commitment like you do.

He Likes Other Women

Does he keep complementing his women friends, keeps liking other girls’ photos or talking too much about his ex?

Your boyfriend, just like most guys, has a history. He has been with other girls and has been through failed relationships, and it’s normal to find other girls attractive. But if he likes other women more than you, that’s a different story.

Yes, some guys don’t get matured as quickly as most women. Some men, especially those of the younger age group, need more time to grow and prepare themselves to settle. However, it’s not your job to just wait and let him disrespect you. So, if he’s constantly acting as if he doesn’t have a girlfriend and making you feel insecure, you need to do something.

Get Over Him

When you’re deeply into someone, it’s hard to find the courage to let go, even if you’re too hurt. One of the reasons is that your heart keeps reminding you of your happy memories together and keeps hoping that everything will be alright.

Yes, a relationship might not be just all about fun moments. But if he consistently makes you feel unloved, still uses online dating sites, or does other things that aren’t okay for you, don’t expect him to change. Just accept that he’s not the man you expect him to be.

There are plenty of good guys out there; you only need to give up on the wrong man, but not on finding the one. Thus, don’t hesitate about other dating men until you find the one worth your love.

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