Potentash
  • Relationships
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Parenting
  • Lifestyle
    • Home
    • Food + Beverage
    • Fashion
    • Interviews
  • Stories
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Fiction
    • Poetry
  • Skin + Beauty
    • Skin
      • Skincare
    • Hair
      • Haircare
  • Wellness
    • Physical Health
    • Emotional Wellness
    • Mental Wellness
    • Social Wellness
    • Spiritual Wellness
  • Business
    • Business Finance
    • Personal Finance
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Investments
    • Personal Investments
  • Entertainment
    • Internet
    • Events
    • Music
    • Books
No Result
View All Result
  • Login
Potentash
  • Relationships
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Parenting
  • Lifestyle
    • Home
    • Food + Beverage
    • Fashion
    • Interviews
  • Stories
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Fiction
    • Poetry
  • Skin + Beauty
    • Skin
      • Skincare
    • Hair
      • Haircare
  • Wellness
    • Physical Health
    • Emotional Wellness
    • Mental Wellness
    • Social Wellness
    • Spiritual Wellness
  • Business
    • Business Finance
    • Personal Finance
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Investments
    • Personal Investments
  • Entertainment
    • Internet
    • Events
    • Music
    • Books
No Result
View All Result
  • Login
Potentash
No Result
View All Result
The Importance Of A Vacation To Supplement A Healthy Lifestyle

I Found Out He’s Taking His Side Chick On Our Dream Holiday

Singlehood Series by Singlehood Series
19 December 2018
in The Singlehood Series
Reading Time: 6 mins read
1.2k 63
1
1.5k
SHARES
8.4k
VIEWS
FacebookTwitterWhatsApp

What’s wrong with stalking your ex on Instagram? I’ll tell you what’s wrong. First of all, you find out he’s still entertaining the girl he cheated on you with. It’s as if his fingers will fall off if he goes a day without telling his 30,000 followers how much he adores her. He had never even posted me on his social media, not once. Then, I find out he’s taking her to our dream holiday destination and everything stops.

I nearly smashed my phone when I saw that post but I remembered I had to dig back into my pocket to buy a new one. Money was no longer a “by the way” after Jones and I ended things. No more girlfriend allowances, random M-PESA texts and expensive gifts. Life really sucked and I resented his new girl for ruining things between us.

Beyonce in her Hold Up music video image from https://giphy.com/gifs/beyonce-album-SOvhijU29IQMw

After scrolling through her feed, I found out that we had a mutual friend. It appeared that one of the girls I go to Zumba class with happens to know her quite well. Everybody in Nairobi knows each other, that’s what people say. So, I invited the Zumba girl for lunch and asked her about our mutual friend, Tasha. Unknowingly, she gave me more information than I needed including how Tasha and Jones met.

“She always tells this story.” She started. “They were at Jones’ friend’s birthday party. Tasha was dancing with another girl when Jones came up to her.”

“Aww… how cute,” I said recalling that very night Jones and I had an argument and I didn’t go to the party with him.

“Nowadays, they’re inseparable. He’s even taking her on holiday to Mauritius. How lucky is she?”

Lucky? That’s laughable. The man who cheated on his 2-year girlfriend because she didn’t go with him to a party. Or the man who takes another girl to his ex-girlfriend’s dream holiday destination.

I understood why the girl was so excited to get Jones’ attention, though. He was somewhat of a celebrity. He owned a popular nightclub where he spent most of his days and nights. To a 20-something-year-old girl, that seemed like the perfect boyfriend.

We parted ways with the Zumba girl and I immediately drove to Jones’ club ready to cause a scene. I knew she was going to be there. That was my life she was living, sitting pretty in his office just the way he liked. I did a little soul-searching, however, and decided it wasn’t worth it.

“What will causing a scene do?” I thought to myself. “It will only embarrass me more.”

I spent hours in my car trying to come up with a good plan to stop them from going on my dream holiday. A part of me kept telling me to let it go but this wasn’t one of those ‘what would Jesus do?’ situations. Jesus wouldn’t even be in this situation.

The amount of dirt I dug up in one afternoon could bury their entire relationship but I couldn’t lose track of what was important. Little Miss Tasha worked at the travel agency as a marketer. She convinced them bringing a celebrity on board would be good for their brand. As a result, they booked an all-expense paid trip for the said “celebrity” and a plus one. What they didn’t know was that this celebrity was her boyfriend who simply owned a popular nightclub.

So, I decided to let them know.

That evening, I emailed the travel agency but didn’t get a response until the following day from the General manager himself. It read,

Good evening Daisy,

We have noted your previous email and have taken its contents into consideration. We appreciate your concern and shall investigate the matter promptly. Kindly relay any other information that might help us. We shall also keep you anonymous as requested.

Warm regards,

Richard Mwita

General Manager.

I wasn’t particularly proud of myself for snitching but the rules don’t apply when your dream holiday is on the line. How could they be going on my dream holiday without even spending a cent? That’s not how it worked. After that one email, I didn’t bother much with how things turned out. If they chose to still pay for their trip, then that was completely up to them.

Days later, the general manager emailed me again letting me know that they confirmed my story was true and they let Tasha go. They fired her! For a while, I was shocked but again, what did I think would happen? It’s not like they would give her a warning letter after she tried to defraud the company of an all-expense paid trip.

I ran into her friend, the Zumba girl, that week and she couldn’t wait to spill the tea on Tasha’s situation. As usual, I played dumb and really acted out my astonishment.

“Did you hear what happened to Tasha?” she started

“No. I’ve been off social media for a while.”

“Girl, she even quit social media. I hear she was caught up in some job drama that they fired her.” She explained as I remained quiet not to say something incriminating. “Then her boyfriend… remember Jones?”

His name got my attention. I stopped shuffling things in my gym bag and pucked up without seeming too eager.

“Yeah, what about him?” I asked.

“I heard they broke up. apparently, he was dragged into that job drama. Poor Tasha. The way she was…”

The Zumba girl continued talking for another minute before she left for class. I still couldn’t believe what I had just heard. Easy come easy go, they say. It seemed like Tasha had gotten more than she deserved but her Beloved Jones who had cost her everything was nowhere to be seen.

Despite all he had done, I still wanted Jones back. I wanted us to be the ones to go on that dream holiday. I wanted him to call and apologize. He didn’t. Guys like him don’t bother going back to their old news. He was probably looking for another young, pretty girl to take on my dream holiday.

More stories in The Singlehood Series

He Died With His Side Chick As The Main Chick Prepared His Birthday Surprise

When You Become His Permanent Side Chick

Finding Love On A Girls’ Trip

My Date Shocked Me With His Crazy Request

How I Got Pregnant After A One Night Stand At My Fresher’s Bash

How I Got Stuck With The Bill After A Date With A Broke Guy

My Date Humiliated Me In Front Of My Workmates At A Tusker Project Fame Event

I Settled For The Wrong Guy Because My Clock Was Ticking And It Cost Me

My Best Friend Found Out She Was The Other Woman

She Agreed To Her Boyfriend Having A Side Chick To Avoid Losing Him

Share601Tweet376SendShare105Pin135
Previous Post

Skincare: 7 Tips And Tricks To Remove Makeup Effortlessly

Next Post

Lifestyle: 2018 Fashion Trends You Can Still Rock In 2019

Singlehood Series

Singlehood Series

The singlehood series is a collection of real-life stories and opinions from different people. It looks at the current world of dating around the world and the experiences that people have gone through.

Next Post
Lifestyle: 2018 Fashion Trends You Can Still Rock In 2019

Lifestyle: 2018 Fashion Trends You Can Still Rock In 2019

Please login to join discussion

Recommended

Anti-Ghosting: The Polite Dating Trend To Help People Dish Out Or Handle Rejection

Anti-Ghosting: The Polite Dating Trend To Help People Dish Out Or Handle Rejection

29 September 2023
27

Creative: A Day In My Life (From My Cat’s Perspective)

3 October 2018
122

Popular Stories

  • Unhappy black couple seated on bed - tolerable level of permanent unhappiness

    Relationships And A Tolerable Level Of Permanent Unhappiness

    1561 shares
    Share 623 Tweet 389
  • Book Review: Things I Will Tell My Daughter By Joan Thatiah

    657 shares
    Share 263 Tweet 164
  • What To See In Ireland In 7 Days | An Ultimate Guide

    25 shares
    Share 10 Tweet 6
  • 5 Different Ways To Cook Pilau

    8785 shares
    Share 3508 Tweet 2193
  • Her Husband Was The Perfect Man, Perfect But Boring. An Affair Lead to Complications And Unveiled Hidden Secrets

    348 shares
    Share 139 Tweet 87

Potentash Blog

Potentash is an award-winning lifestyle blog. We publish lifestyle content that intersects with health, women, beauty, travel, business, relationships, finances and entertainment.

Explore

  • The Singlehood Series
  • From Stairs To Ramps
  • Man Around Nairobi
  • Pearls And Heels
  • Personal Finance
  • Food + Beverage
  • Editor’s Pick
  • Reviews

Get the Potentash Newsletter

  • Newsletter Archive
  • Subscribe
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Privacy Policy
  • Contact Us

Copyright © 2023. Potentash, In Partnership with Decima

Welcome Back!

Sign In with Linked In
OR

Login to your account below

Forgotten Password?

Retrieve your password

Please enter your username or email address to reset your password.

Log In
  • Login
No Result
View All Result
  • Relationships
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Dating
    • Sex
    • Parenting
  • Lifestyle
    • Home
    • Food + Beverage
    • Fashion
    • Interviews
  • Stories
    • The Singlehood Series
    • Fiction
    • Poetry
  • Skin + Beauty
    • Skin
      • Skincare
    • Hair
      • Haircare
  • Wellness
    • Physical Health
    • Emotional Wellness
    • Mental Wellness
    • Social Wellness
    • Spiritual Wellness
  • Business
    • Business Finance
    • Personal Finance
    • Entrepreneurship
    • Investments
    • Personal Investments
  • Entertainment
    • Internet
    • Events
    • Music
    • Books

Copyright © 2023. Potentash, In Partnership with Decima