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Relationships: Five Dating Myths Ruining Your Chance At Happiness

Relationships: Five Dating Myths Ruining Your Chance At Happiness

Anne Kasyoka by Anne Kasyoka
1 July 2019
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Dating in the modern world has become somewhat of an enigma. From “Netflix and chill” to “ghosting,” the digital era has its own set of jargon and expectations that can be intimidating to those searching for love.

Fortunately, there are a lot of misconceptions about modern dating. Here are five dating myths that could be preventing you from finding the love of your life.

Online Dating Is Just for Hookups

One of the main deterrents to the online dating world for women seeking men is the idea that dating sites and apps are just for online hookups. Alternatively, the idea that men are only on the sites to start casual relationships rather than looking for a committed, long-term partner. In fact, many apps that may have started that way have evolved into a platform to meet someone special.

Before you start dating online, think about what you want out of a relationship. Identify your personal goals and needs and determine how a relationship can fulfil them. Then, find the best site to accomplish those goals.

You’ll Have An Instant Reaction

When you start dating, forget about the “love at first sight” myth or that “when you know, you know.” You might not have an instant reaction to the person who you might spend the rest of your life with. It could take a few dates to realize that you are really attracted to someone. On the contrary, someone who piques your interest right away might become less appealing when you get to know them more.

Dating is about getting to know someone while taking an introspective look into yourself. You may discover that the things you thought you wanted aren’t what you want at all. You may find that someone who isn’t your type is perfect for you.

Men Should Initiate

The days of men taking the lead are in the past. Women in the dating world tend to have an idea that men should take the lead while men in the dating world have been told the opposite: if a woman is interested, she’ll let you know. This creates a stalemate of potential matches that never speak to one another.

If you find someone, regardless of your gender, take the initiative to reach out and start a conversation. Leaving the onus on the other person all the time means sacrificing your potential for happiness.

It’s All Based on Looks

It’s true, the first thing that catches someone’s attention on a dating site or in public is how you look. This is often the first step in piquing interest (until you get to know someone a bit better). Additionally, how you look in an online profile can dictate the kind of responses and matches you get, as one young woman discovered by creating various profiles with different levels of makeup application. However, looks aren’t the be-all-end-all of dating.

Both making your politics and career information public will also have an impact on how you are perceived in the online dating world. In a politically charged society, politics are often used as the secondary screening method in online dating. It’s up to you to decide how much information you share initially.

Online Dating Is Desperate

Everyone craves that serendipitous moment when they meet their soulmate in the cheese aisle at the grocery store. In the modern world, it’s important to let go of that cheesy expectation and put yourself out there. Sure, you may end up with one of those chance encounters, but it’s time to let go of the stigmas regarding online dating.

A 2017 survey showed that 40% of people in a relationship met their partner online, overshadowing those who had been set up with someone through a friend or met at a social function. In the digital age, online dating isn’t the last resort: it’s the go-to.

To be successful in modern dating, you need to open your mind to experiences you hadn’t considered before and always take time for self-care and reflection. Forget the myths and seize the day.

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