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How to stop a child nagging

How to stop a child nagging [canva.com]

7 Simple Ways Parents Can Stop Their Children From Nagging

How to prevent and deal with nagging

Gloria Mari by Gloria Mari
24 November 2023
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Children can be enthusiastic about everything. But when they ask for something and you deny it to them, they can become insistent. They can keep nagging until you give in and get them what they want. Children can also nag when they feel restless and bored. Sometimes indulging them doesn’t help because they find something new to nag about.

They can always find something to beg even when you tell them to stop. The problem with pestering is when it becomes a habit, the children grow into entitled adults. Unfortunately, children can pick irreverent times to trap you into a cycle of negotiation. Sometimes, they can do it to ensure they get what they want because they know you’re in a hurry.

How to handle nagging

1. Avoid giving in

It’s unlikely that you will always find a chance to say no. However, children are quick studies. They will notice that you’re more likely to accept what they want if they corner you in public or when you’re about to leave for work. Constantly agreeing reinforces their belief that you will agree when cornered. Try to say no more often. When they start nagging, say no and let them learn that no isn’t an opportunity to try and change your mind.

2. Don’t yell

Parents occasionally yell when they’re frustrated. However, avoid snapping because your child is nagging. Getting upset frequently also shows them that you can easily get riled up. They can weaponise this by guilt tripping or crying. If you also allow your temper to get the best of you, it can cause you to say things you will later regret. Try to stay calm and walk away from the situation if you feel your temper rising.

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3. Ignore attention-seeking behaviour

When you say no, your children can throw tantrums, break stuff, or throw things. When they start doing this, find a way to ignore it while still ensuring they don’t hurt themselves. If the child is older, get them to clean up the mess they made before they go do their next activity, like playtime. Tantrums are a stage that eventually passes but acting out when they don’t get their way is a habit that can manifest in different ways when they get older. If your child yells, don’t yell back. You can tell them that you will only address them when they speak respectfully.

4. Warn them

Children deserve one warning when they misbehave. Sometimes they don’t understand that pestering is unacceptable behaviour. If they repeat it, give them a warning telling them that if they nag, they will face a consequence. This is especially useful if they’re asking for something they’re not supposed to. For example, you can tell them that if they keep yelling for what they want, they won’t get the gift you promised them.

5. Issue consequences

When children misbehave, they have to understand that their actions have consequences. Issuing repeated warnings may not be effective. Until children face consequences for their bad behaviour, they won’t change. Take away a privilege, or use a logical consequence.

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6. Teach your child how to manage frustration

The reason children nag is because they want to avoid frustration or sadness. Depending on the reason they are nagging, you can teach your children how to behave better and self-regulate. If your kid is nagging because they want your attention, teach them that if they wait until you’re free, they can get all the attention they need. You can also give your kids play items so that they can pretend to work near you. Children who pester by asking many questions want a different kind of attention. Instead of telling them to be quiet, you can tell them to ask better questions.

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You can also teach them to colour if they’re upset or sit alone until the feelings subside. You can also show them that crying is ok. They can also write in a journal or mould plasticine.

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7. Teach your child gratitude

Instead of having an attitude where they constantly ask for things, teach your kids to be grateful for what they already have. Teach them the difference between needs and wants. For example, teach them that food is a need but treats are a want. And treats are for special occasions.

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Gloria Mari is a culture writer based in Nairobi, Kenya. She writes on art, film, literature, health, and the environment. She has previously written for Kenya Buzz, People Daily, The Elephant, and Kalahari Review.

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